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The horrible disease of Never Enoughl

1/28/2015

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Living in the North Georgia mountain area, in rural America, it's pretty challenging to shop without either going to Walmart occasionally or going online, usually to Amazon.  That got me thinking today about the greed and avarice that probably didn't create but certainly now support these 2 institutions.  I believe the mythology that Mr. Walton was a kindly gent who wanted to give people a place to shop with prices they could afford.  All good.  I also used to think Jeff Bezos was pretty amazing, having put together an online supercenter so anyone anywhere could get whatever they wanted.  When we first moved to this area in 1979-80, we had to travel 20 miles into North Carolina to buy parmesan cheese!  Every few weeks we went to Atlanta and shopped at the giant health food stores there because we just couldn't buy what we wanted here.
Now we sit in our living rooms and order whatever we want.  But at what price?  I haven't worked for Mr. Bezos so I don't know first hand, nor have I worked at Walmart, although I have friends who have. In both cases, a good idea has seriously gone awry.  We know how poorly paid workers are for both companies, and we hear how stressful their conditions are.  The tragedy is how easily this could have been a completely different story, if only the owners had not had this gaping addiction to money, more money than anyone could ever use in a lifetime, or 100 lifetimes!
When is it enough? 
In our culture, we have nothing but praise and adulation for money addicts.  They are the stars of all advertising, stepping off yachts and private jets wearing thousands of dollars of clothes and sunglasses.  Money is glamour, and so we fail to acknowledge it as a sickness when someone becomes a glutton for it.
Two downsides of money addiction are that the people who have it are selling their souls for it, and the people who work for them suffer.  This is not to say that all rich and successful people are money addicts, far from it.  There are examples of very wealthy people who treat their employees well, pay well and provide healthcare and time off.  They manage to stay balanced, which is a choice we all have to make, every day.  It might be a lot more challenging for the very rich.  That's something I don't yet know about.  
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Control Freak!

1/28/2015

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This morning I went down to my mom's house to take her breakfast or make her breakfast like I do just about every morning since I noticed she was living on tangerines and bananas.  I hadn't slept too well cause she had this thing on her leg that wasn't looking too good and I was freaking out.  I had just run in to her best friend in the supermarket and said, "She's 98!  It's not a little thing on her leg that's going to kill her,"  and then of course I had to run the rolodex of every bad belief I'd been taught about putting things into words.  My nightmare is hospitals and medical interventions, my dream is good health and relative serenity for the rest of her life.  

I got out of bed early and decided to warm up the house by baking.  Sometimes building a fire in the wood stove feels like too much early in the morning, so I turned on the oven and made cornbread and roasted squash and oatcakes.  My oatcakes are what I allow my little Virgo self for treats.  They are sugarless, usually, but really too full of fat to make them healthy, which is how they get so crunchy.  I put (low sugar) Trader Joe's organic apricot jam on some, and took them straight warm from the oven, down to my mom's house.


Where I had to convince her to try them instead of having Milanos for breakfast.  Mint Milanos are great, but I wanted her to eat MY COOKIES!!  I made them just for her and I felt just like when I was 8 and selling Girl Scout cookies.  I wanted my mom to eat MY cookies, and here I still was, wanting her to choose these healthy ones over Milanos!


At first I felt like a weirdo control freak.  Seriously, how bad can it be for a 98 year old to eat Milanos for breakfast if she wants to?  And then I saw this journey I'm on with my mom in the light of the whole lifetime tour we've done so far.  This is our chance to heal  anything that is left, it's our golden opportunity.  Sometimes it feels like anything but.  It does for me, and I'm sure it does for her.  We always butted heads, we were never particularly close or compatible.  She was an ex fashion model wife, I was a hippie horseback riding free spirit.  We never really got a chance to know each other, and now we have it.  I plan to make the most of it.  I'll let you know how it goes.
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Just Enough to be Dangerous

1/9/2015

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It was my visit to the doctor with my mom yesterday that showed me what this expression means.  I’ve heard all my life about knowing just enough to be dangerous, but I didn’t really contemplate it before.

I didn’t understand why my mom was supposed to keep doing something that in my mind was no longer useful.  To my mind it seemed counterintuitive, yet when the doctor explained it to me, it was obviously necessary.

When I had a gallbladder attack, and subsequent surgery, several “healers” told me I could heal it naturally, their message being “if I just tried hard enough.”  Well, I tried everything I knew and lost almost 30 lbs and was sick all the time until I had surgery.  They knew just enough to be dangerous and I was lucky to have an advocate with a medical background to support and advise me.

I’m sure this could apply to building a house, driving a car, anything we do in life when we think we know more than we really do.  At the root of it is egotism and pride in our own opinion without the benefit of enough training in that particular area.  There is always a pushy quality to it of thinking we know better what someone needs or wants than they do.

My take away is to be aware and mindful of this:  when offering advice and counsel, make sure it comes from a pure place of helping and not from wanting to appear the expert.

Sukoshi Rice is a philosopher and wellness coach practicing in Blairsville since 1985.  She can be reached at [email protected] or www.sukoshirice.com

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